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The Dos and Don’ts of Online Dating

Posted on May 4, 2015April 30, 2015 by Editor0 Posted in Love and RelationshipsLeave a Comment

Unless you’re working in a completely male milieu, your quest to meet the man of your dreams might take you to the bustling world of Internet. However, online dating isn’t as easy as you think. So, to exponentially increase your chance of getting a successful online dating experience, here are some of practical online dating dos and don’ts.

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Online Dating DOs

Play Some Dating Game. Whether you like it or not, dating is game and you’ll need to play the game for you to get what you want. This means that you’ll need to accept that chase is always part of the courtship process in an online dating setting. If you find a profile that catches your eye, send him a friendly email, an icebreaker, or even just a flirty wink. If that person responds to you, then the game is on.

Represent Yourself Honestly. Though it can be easy to misrepresent yourself when dating online, you’ll be more likely to succeed in your online dating venture if you’re honest about who you really are. As you should always represent yourself honestly, expect the same thing in return from anyone you’d meet online.

Do an In-Person Encounter When You’re Ready. Once you’ve already established a comfortable rapport between both of you, it’s already time to take your online dating into reality. For your first face-to-face date, opt for an afternoon coffee drink instead of an after-dark activity to ease of any signs of anxiety.

Online Dating DON’Ts

Divulge Too Much Information Too Soon. Nobody is interested in reading a thesis-long information about you either on your profile, or on your initial email exchanges. It’s actually overwhelming for the other party and can be a total turnoff.

While it’s important to be open and friendly in the getting-to-know-you stage, it’s also necessary that you maintain a sense of mystery on yourself. Just share enough info about yourself to intrigue your prospective match, leaving him wanting for more.

Never Lead Somebody On. This applies both for face-to-face and online dating. If someone you’re not interested with contacts you, never lead him on and just leave him hanging. Instead, send a short and thoughtful rejection from the start of your interaction.

Never Jeopardise Your Own Safety. Your safety should always be your number one concern whether it’s online or real-life dating. Avoid giving away identifying information, and never agree to meet a complete stranger in an unfamiliar place. Your well-being and safety should be more important than pleasing a stranger by doing things that you feel are risky and unsafe.

Participating in an online dating site is not as bad as everyone thinks. Just make sure that you remain cautious of the person you’re dealing with and always put your safety as your top priority.

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Making a Big Comeback

Posted on April 30, 2015 by Editor0 Posted in CareersLeave a Comment

6 Tips for Older Women Who Want to Re-Enter the Workforce

Settling down during their early 30s and having kids a year or two after are some of the reasons why most women leave the workforce. Some become full-time housewives, while some are still planning to take another shot to be back on the work field. If you’re one of the latter, here are six simple tips that you can do to achieve your most awaited comeback as a career woman.

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Plan Your Path Ahead. A good way to kick-start your career comeback is to choose a profession that excites you and keeps you motivated to work, because most employers nowadays already values an employee’s motivation to work than her skill.

Relive Some Connections. Staying in touch with your former colleagues is one of the greatest way to keep you updated on any job opportunities in their respective companies. Also, don’t hesitate to reach out to the new people who may become relevant for the new career path that you’ll be taking.

Stay Active on Social Media. This doesn’t necessarily mean posting your resume online. Instead, post photos of you working on a particular project on an underdeveloped area in your Facebook or Instagram accounts. That way, your potential employer will be able to see how you’ll fit in with their corporate culture.

Enhance Your Skills. Since you’re back for a new career direction, it’s imperative that you refresh and improve your skills, though studying to further hone your skills shouldn’t also be done on the last minute. Remember that you’ll get an extra confidence boost when you develop your skills for years, compared to when you do it in a just span of two to three months.

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View Job Searching as a Temporary Full-Time Job. Now is not the time to feel bad or lazy about being unable to find a new job. You’ve experienced job searching before and conquered it, so you’ll be able to do it again. Just treat it as your temporary full-time job as you search for your real dream job.

Research Your Role. Most successful businesses spend a lot of time researching, and the same thing goes for searching a job. Perform a thorough research on the position that you want to land on. If possible, plan your first few weeks as if you’re already working for the company and you’ll be able to answer interview questions like you’re already in the position.

Getting a second shot in the working field during your 40s will not be easy. However, staying positive and motivated during this time will surely land you your dream job even for the second time around.

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7 Types of Healthy Noodles You Should Be Eating

Posted on April 19, 2015April 15, 2015 by Editor0 Posted in Food and NutritionLeave a Comment

Pasta can be a quick and tasty meal, but it’s not always good for your waistline and your wellness. If you love a plate full of spaghetti, here are the kinds of pastas you should be serving instead of the traditional ones.

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1. Whole Wheat Pasta – This type of pasta contains two more grams of protein and seven more grams of fibre per serving than traditional pasta. Moreover, whole grain pasta doesn’t undergo chlorine bleaching, which eradicates over three quarters of minerals and vitamins in white pasta.

2. Kelp Noodles – These clear, glossy noodles are made from seaweed that has been ground and mixed with water and salt. Kelp noodles are great for those who are conscious of their weight as half a cup of this noodle only contains around 30 calories.

3. Rice Pasta – Has slightly unusual texture, this pasta is wheat-free, gluten-free, and cholesterol-free, making it an ideal food choice for those who are watchful to their health.

4. Spelt Pasta – A cousin of wheat pasta, spelt pasta doesn’t seem to cause sensitive reactions in people who are intolerant of wheat.

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5. Shiritaki Noodles – Available in different shapes, from flat fettuccine to macaroni style, kelp noodles also boast a super low caloric content—20 calories for every four ounce of serving. Moreover, it contains much lower amount of fat, sugar, and carbohydrates than any other types of noodles.

6. Kamut Pasta – Kamut Pasta is the brand name for khorasan wheat. A type of durum wheat, this pasta can be eaten by individuals who are sensitive to wheat.

7. Quinoa Pasta – This good pasta has all the nutritional benefits. These benefits include high amount of protein, meaning it contains all kinds of amino acids that the body needs. It also has high levels of vitamin E, iron, calcium, magnesium, and riboflavin. Plus, it’s gluten-free.

Thanks to ever-expanding pasta aisles, health-conscious pasta lovers can now enjoy more delicious alternatives to traditional pasta. Get adventurous and treat yourself to more flavourful pasta dishes without putting your health or your weight at stake.

Kid’s Health: 5 Stomach Ache Symptoms to Watch For

Posted on April 15, 2015 by Editor0 Posted in Health and WellnessLeave a Comment

Stomach aches can happen frequently, though most of them are just minor cases. However, some can be an indication of more serious things, so make sure to be in the know and stay alert when it comes to your child’s health.

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1. Abdominal Pain: This is simply a feeling of discomfort in the abdominal area. Most of time tolerable, but sometimes can hamper a child’s day-to-day activities.

See a doctor if: The pain just suddenly came and seems like it’s not going away.

2. Vomiting: In children and infants, vomiting is common. This happens when the child is too full or stomach contents are involuntarily brought up back to the mouth whether or not the child is full. It could also be a gastroesophageal reflux disease (GERD) if your child complains about a sour or foul tasting substance in the mouth or points the pain in the upper middle part of his abdomen.

See a doctor if: Vomiting has tinges of blood, or if it’s becoming more frequent and is accompanied by abdominal cramps and diarrhea.

3. Constipation: Constipation is among the three most common causes of tummy aches in kids. Adding more fibre to your children’s diet, along with prune juice or apple juice can help a lot in maintaining healthy digestion.

See a doctor if: You see signs of rectal bleeding. It could be a chronic constipation, which can be a sign of celiac diseases or underactive thyroid gland.

4. Dehydration: When a stomach ailment causes your child to vomit more frequently, accompanied by diarrhea, he is at risk of dehydration. This means that the body will lack electrolytes and fluid to function properly.

See a doctor if: Your child shows signs of moderate to heavy dehydration, such as sunken fontanelle (the soft spot on an infant’s head), sunken eyeballs, constant thirst, absence of tears, and dry skin.

5. Diarrhea: This is a condition wherein the child produces loose or watery stool, usually three times in a day. In this condition, the consistency of the stool is much more important than the frequency of the bowel movements. So even if the child makes more than three movements a day, with formed stool, it doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s diarrhea.

See a doctor if: There’s mucus or blood in the stool and if it’s accompanied by abdominal cramps and fever or follows vomiting after a meal, as this could be a sign of food poisoning.

Tummy aches among children is common, but knowing what this indications could mean—along with other signs—can save your child from serious health condition.

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4 Best KTV Places in Singapore

Posted on January 30, 2015July 1, 2020 by Editor0 Posted in Exploring SingaporeLeave a Comment

KTV’s are great locations to hang out with your friends and family. It’s also a fun way to release the hidden performer in you. Have fun, sing your heart out and bond with your friends. Here are some of the best places in Singapore to go karaoke singing.

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TopOne’s place is a very spacious and nice KTV studio in Singapore. There are several karaoke rooms you can choose from, ranging from rooms with disco balls, smoke effects and colorful lightings. There is also a recording studio where you can feel like a real deal singer and record your rendition of songs.

Party World KTV

Equipped with beautifully decorated rooms, excellent audiovisual systems and nice lightings, Party World KTV is a hit among its customers. Its branches are also conveniently located near Clarke Quay, an area popular for its eventful nightlife.

Tang Music Box KTV

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Tang Music Box is not only a place for karaoke and enjoyment. You can also shop and choose your own favorite foods and snacks while taking a karaoke break in the main hall called The Meeting Place. Here you can socialize with other customers and your friends in between sessions.

Ten Dollar Club KTV

For students who are short on budget for prestigious karaoke places, Ten Dollar Club KTV offers a more affordable but entertaining karaoke experience. This is really an affordable choice because you can bring your own food to save up on the expenses. If you are also bored of karaoke, pool tables are provided in the main hall.

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4 Best Night Clubs in Singapore

Posted on January 27, 2015July 1, 2020 by Editor0 Posted in Exploring SingaporeLeave a Comment

After five days of being stuck with work and school, the weekends are sacred for people who want to have fun and release some stress. After dark, people from different walks of life gather to night clubs to dance the night away or just enjoy the festive vibe of the place and sip on some cocktails. In Singapore, these are some of the best nightclubs you can visit in Singapore.

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Zouk Nightclub

Men and women, in all ages, flock to Zouk for the ultimate clubbing experience. Zouk nightclub has four different clubs inside the establishment- Phuture, Velvel Underground, Zouk and Lounge. Music in Zouk is provided by DJs from the local and international party scene.

Attica

Located in Clarke Quay, Attica is one of the many clubs that are popular to its patrons because of the excellent music, drinks, food and the party atmosphere they provide. Ladies will not run out of cocktail options in Attica because they serve various drinks and desserts for women.

Club Kyo

Club Kyo is a great place to experience authentic Japanese spirits, wines and alcoholic drinks. The place exudes a contemporary vibe because of its earthy interior. The minimalist interior design does not prevent the clients to enjoy Kyo’s dance floor and groove to the good music.

The Butter Factory

If you are a fan of R&B music, then it’s guaranteed you will enjoy this place. Quality R&B music will be provided by expert DJs while you catch up with friends and sip your favorite spirits.

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Timeless Beauty Looks

Posted on November 22, 2014November 18, 2014 by Editor0 Posted in Beauty and MakeupLeave a Comment

Trends come and go. They change constantly and truthfully, it’s getting a bit hard to keep up with the latest fashion and styling trends. With the purpose of making every girl’s life a bit easier, we present you beauty looks that never go out of style.

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Rosy red lips

You can now stock up on different shape of red lipsticks because we’re here to tell you red lips will always be ‘in’. It makes any woman look stylish and sophisticated. Wearing red lips alone can make you look very put together. The right shade of red lipstick will brighten up your whole face.

Smokey eyes

Smokey eyes are a big trend because it makes the eyes pop. It gives off an edgy and mysterious vibe to the wearer. It will also highlight the color of your peepers.

Winged eyeliner

The perfect winged eyeliner is very hard to achieve but women desire to master this trick because it creates a big change in our look. It elongates the eyes, making it stand out and gives an instant oomph factor to our entire face.

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Defined eyebrows

Gone are the days when women wanted to make their eyebrows as thin as possible. Cara Delevingne inspires us to embrace our thick eyebrows and make it more defined. Defined brows frame our face so make sure to keep your eyebrows groomed properly.

Deep side part

A deep side part to limp hair can give extra volume and body. It makes us look sexy and glamorous. It adds an instant wow factor to plain and simple hair.

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Meet the Perfect Wedding Planner for Your Special Day

Posted on November 19, 2014 by Editor0 Posted in WeddingsLeave a Comment

Wedding planning can be extremely stressing, both for the bride and groom and their family. It is not only about proper utilization of the financial resources they have but to also create the dream wedding that they have in their mind. This article will provide you with a wedding planning guide.

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No matter which part of the world you live in, may that be London, America, Malaysia, Singapore or any third world country for that matter, the www.perfectweddings.sg from Singapore wedding planning guide will provide you with all the information you could possibly want. The planning should move along systematically in a timely fashion and development of checklists can really help keep track of whatever is going on. However, if you do not want to handle everything yourself, you can simply hire a professional wedding planner, who will be ready to provide their professional services round the clock.

There are numerous wedding planner companies present, especially in the city of Singapore which is a favorite wedding destination for couples who want to tie the knot. This is unthinkable when both bride and groom are planning themselves and have to negotiate with others to get the work done on time while at the same time having to supervise the quality of work all the time.

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This is the reason why clients in Singapore are realizing the value of a professional wedding planner as they feel that their services are really worth the efforts put in by them. Be reminded that it is always a personal decision. However, despite all their advantages, the fact remains that one has to pay the fees of a wedding planner out of their own pockets and it is really their own decision whether to hire the services of a consultant or not.

While you can hire a top-of-the-line wedding planner in Singapore with the status of a celebrity, there are also many wedding consultants that charge very reasonable price for their services. But if you have a budget, do stick to it as there is no use getting upset with high fees of a wedding planner once you have agreed to his services.

If your marriage is months away and you can manage everything on your own, there is no point in hiring the services of a wedding consultant but if marriage is on the cards and you do not want to take all the stress that is inevitable with a marriage, it is worth investing in the services of a wedding planner in Singapore.

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The Best Places to Experience Korean BBQ in Singapore

Posted on November 18, 2014July 1, 2020 by Editor0 Posted in Exploring Singapore, FoodLeave a Comment

Korean pop music and Korean television dramas are not the only things making waves in different parts of the world. More and more people nowadays are enjoying delicious Korean cuisine. Because of this, the Korean dining experience have mushroomed into a profitable business especially in Singapore.

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Perhaps we were enticed by what we see in Korean dramas where people dine in eating shacks, grill beef and drink soju that the Korean meat roasting techniques have grown very popular not only in Singapore but in other parts of the world as well.

To enjoy authentic Korean barbeque in Singapore, we listed some of the best Korean barbeque restaurants you have to visit.

Ssikkek BBQ

They serve both fresh and marinated beef, chicken and pork in big trays. You can cook them however you want. There are even non-marinated meat slices available if you want to marinate or boost its flavor just the way you like it.

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If you want other food choices, they also have sausages, seafood and other Korean side dishes like kimchi. A lot of people keep coming back to the restaurant because the area is clean, comfortable and very well maintained.

The Corner Place Korean BBQ

One key attraction in The Corner Place aside from their grilled meat options is the Dong Chi Mi Gook Su or noodles served in water kimchi. It’s refreshing and a bit sweet. It’s a perfect combination with grilled meat and it gets you ready for another serving of meats.

The restaurant also offers a bibimbap buffet, which includes a hefty serving of rice, mushrooms, cooked meats, lettuce and other vegetables.

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